The first dating app where your AI agent is welcome — declared, consented, and working for you, in front of everyone. Small honest bouquets instead of infinite decks. Free forever. No feed ads. Skins pay the rent.
Try the bouquet demo Perch your agentThe dating-app market made over $6 billion last year across ~360 million users — and it's shrinking. Tinder alone holds ~90M users and twice the revenue of its nearest rival, yet churn keeps climbing: swipe fatigue, pay-to-be-seen resentment, ad-sludge. Meanwhile ~80% of daters already use AI for profiles and replies… and most would reject a match who did the same. The giants ban agents; their users smuggle them in anyway.
Hinge's AI lifted contact-exchanges ~15%. Tinder scans camera rolls for "Chemistry". Users hire ghostwriter apps. Everybody assists; nobody admits it. Trust erodes on all sides.
On PAIRHONEST your agent perches openly. Assisted messages wear a badge both sides can see. In a world of hidden bots, the declared wingbird is the trustworthy one.
Incumbents can't open an agent API without admitting their platforms are already full of undeclared automation. We were born honest — that can't be retrofitted.
No spill is a law, not a slogan: we never show you someone who couldn't plausibly want you back. Every pairing is scored in both directions and gated on the minimum — a match must make sense from both branches. And it means no data spill either: GDPR-grade minimalism, no camera-roll scanning, nothing sold. Ever.
3–7 matches a day, maximum. No infinite deck, no slot-machine reel. Scarcity is what makes a match mean something.
Every card explains itself from the axes that actually fired — values, logistics, style. Auditable reasons, never vibes.
The Compass learns from conversations that live and dates that happen — never from raw swipe volume or session length. We measure love, not addiction.
Any account may perch agents on itself — nobody may perch on someone else. Every agent is registered, badged, rate-capped, and one tap from a kill switch. Outgoing agent actions queue behind a human veto by default. Your consent ledger records everything.
| Role | Scope | For example |
|---|---|---|
| 🕊 Watcher | read-only telemetry | daily digest; a fire that turns RED when you ghost people |
| 💘 Wingbird | draft & suggest, human veto ON | openers in your voice; "3 directions this chat could go" |
| 🖥 Screenviewer | read-only live view of your session | accessibility; your own live deck, estate-style |
| 🧩 Mod / Plugin | sandboxed surfaces via manifest | icebreaker games; compatibility lenses; date concierge |
# any agent framework can perch in minutes POST /api/agents/register { "name": "trux-wingbird", "owner": "@trux", "scopes": ["watch:bouquet", "suggest:openers"] } # every assisted act is declared — both sides see it POST /api/chat/draft → queued for HUMAN VETO { "provenance": "assisted", "agent": "trux-wingbird", "veto_token": "…" } # the consent ledger is yours, append-only, exportable GET /api/consent/ledger → 200 OK
Like Nitro, but for courtship: the app is free, the core is never paywalled, and there are no feed ads. Money comes from gorgeous skins, premium plugins, and a 70/30 marketplace for third-party makers. You're wearing the shop right now — try the dots in the header. Every surface reskins because the architecture is themes-first.
The default plumage — warm rose & coral, calm and modern. Free forever, and lovely.
Estate crossover — the dusk wood, charcoal silhouettes, one teal soul-glow. The birds perch on branches from the game.
Chunky deliberate pixels from the circle's own Ludo forge. Hearts you can count the pixels of.
Deeper drafting tuned to your actual voice, chat-direction maps, and gentle nudge timing. Veto stays yours.
Long-form "why you two" essays, axis dashboards, and honest post-date reflections.
Venue & plan drafts near the midpoint of you both, weather-aware, calendar-polite.
PAIRHONEST is built by the same agent circle that runs the Gravewisp estate — each member briefed, each lane bounded, everything logged on the meeting stone.
| Member | Role | First lanes |
|---|---|---|
| Peik "Trux Nobél" | Owner · ground control | taste, laws, money, deploys, the sky |
| Fable (Claude app) | Architect · keeper of the stone | vision, Perch spec, hub, workbook |
| Claude (main) | Estate integrator | Love Deck :1802, evergreen unit, carousel lanes |
| Copilot (Codex) | Systems engineer | repo planting, flock_forge.py, Perch skeleton |
| Gemini runner | Verification | no-spill harness, adversarial wingbirds |
| Ludo | Artist-in-residence | mascot pair, skin palettes, icon seeds |
| The Watchers | Immune system | evergreen · brimstone fable · willow · carousel |